If you are one of those women who has decided to hire a wedding planner to organize your wedding, keep in mind that the commitment you have made to marry your partner will not only be to your future husband, but also to your planner.

Entrusting the wedding of your dreams to a person is not an easy task. No matter how much you follow or admire the person who will design your event, there is always an initial reluctance to hand over the reins of the things you say you want to the things you are told to be.

If you chose your planner with a cool head and maintain sufficient compatibility with this person, it will not be long before you establish a trusting relationship in which the exchange of desires, proposals, suggestions, and counter-proposals flows without major problems.

Your planner's commitment to you begins from the first appointment and as soon as the planning of your wedding begins. But it is not enough for the commitment to flow in only one direction. In order for your planner to give you the result you expect, it is very necessary that you do your part to complete the cycle: attend to emails, keep appointments, carefully follow payments, and make the necessary decisions that arise.

This does not mean that you must know for certain what you want: it is very valid, and even expected, that you do not master each of the parts that will form your wedding. That is what the figure of the wedding planner is for. Therefore, take advantage of the advice that he or she can provide, and complete the assigned tasks in a timely manner so that your process, far from being tortuous and exhausting, flows naturally and you enjoy each of the stages of the wedding.